lately I feel like something has to happen. something big. I have the sinking feeling that all I'm doing on Facebook is preaching to the converted. what I really want to do is this: I want to reach out to the world, or at most, the world that isn't on my friends list. I mean, let's face it, we meet different types of people all day long, right? people who, if pressed to make a decision about, we wouldn't add them to our friends list or even make a cup of coffee for. but the other folks... those are the people I want to talk to. they are the ones who don't know anything about me except for the way I treat them.
so, I am herewith going to make it my personal mission to do what I can to make nice to the world. make nice to the planet. make nice to the people and things in it. avoid that the subtle rumble becomes a destructive tsunami or earthquake.
I am going to, from this moment on, be really kind to everyone. and that means everyone... not just the people I love, like a lot or even like a little. that means
e v e r y o n e .
and I don't mean just smiling pleasantly and being naive. I shall cultivate my wisdom and listen to my gut and be a lighthouse.
so, like Bodhisattva Never Disparaging... sticks and stones may break my bones but
e v e r y o n e
is worthy of my respect. just because someone is disrespectful toward me out of a lack of wisdom on their part, doesn't mean that I have to believe it.
my motto for the day: if I don't believe it - I certainly can't grieve it.
http://www.sokaspirit.org/resource/living-buddhism/learning-from-bodhisattva-never-disparaging
I think the task I have taken on is pretty daunting. this means, no random judging, no speaking before I think, no hating (hating is a big fat no-no) and sternly putting my pride in the bung hole at the crucial moment.
there are no exceptions, I'm afraid.
except if someone flips me off while I'm driving down the freeway. that kind of shit is way too much for one person to take.
maybe I shouldn't get a car then...